Archive for November, 2009

Missionary position might sound clean and right, but the plain fact of the matter is that you have a hard time getting in touch with the female g-spot in this position. This means she’s not got much of a chance of reaching an orgasm with this position unless she has had a large amount of stimulation beforehand; enough to put her almost to orgasm by itself.

So for proper g-spot stimulation, its important to try other positions as well. 

• The first alternate position to try is with the woman on top.

Some women won’t be able to do this position because it feels uncomfortable for them however most will not only be able to do it, but enjoy it immensely. Many men find this position an extreme turn on. In this position the woman can control depth, intensity, and speed. She can also tease by not moving and drive the man crazy.

This can be very stimulating for both parties, it also puts her in control of using her movements to put your penis in just the right position to hit her g-spot.

• Another alternate position is commonly known as ‘doggy style.’ This position has the woman on her hands and knees and the man on his knees behind her.

In this position, both parties can share control of all aspects and the woman can move her body in order to guide the man’s penis exactly where she wants it to be. The man can do all the work, or the woman can do all the work, or it can be shared. She may even drop down to her elbows rather than hands.

There are other positions that are just as exciting, do yourselves a favor and explore. Be open minded and adventurous.

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Are you a man that believes he knows everything about a female orgasm?

You may not know as much as you think. Many men believe their wives are happily enjoying orgasms during their sexual encounters but many women are doing nothing of a kind. If your sexual encounters consist of:

1. A little bit of foreplay . . .
2. Then hopping onboard and having sexual intercourse for a little while (maybe you hold off your own orgasm for a while). . .
3. Having your orgasm, your body enjoying waves of euphoria spasming through you. . .
4. and at the same time you see your partner is breathing heavy and making all sorts of enjoyable moaning sounds . . .

It is a good guess that you believe your partner is also having an orgasm.

In all probability, if the intercourse was a short period and there was little or no foreplay, your partner is not having an orgasm. She may be excited and she may be enjoying the intercourse, but it’s not likely that she is actually having an orgasm.She may even be faking one in order to give you full gratification, however, she is still not likely having one herself.

A woman takes much more emotional and physical ‘foreplay’ before she has the possibility of having an orgasm during sexual intercourse.

During sexual intercourse alone, the simple fact is that her clitoris does not receive enough stimulation to build up to an orgasm, and because she is more emotionally based, her emotions also have to be onboard.

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Female ‘ejaculation’ really isn’t that different from male ejaculation in feelings and sensations. It will take a woman longer to get to that point because she is more emotionally based and needs more emotional stimulation as well as physical caressing and ‘foreplay’. If a woman does not have any moisture in her nether regions she is not ready for the next step.

Once a woman is fully stimulated you will know it by her emotional and physical reactions to you.

Arousal for a woman may take longer and intercourse may need to last longer for a woman to orgasm than for a man, but the feelings are very similar in nature:

1. As the woman becomes more and more stimulated, her clitoris and vaginal walls become very sensitive, almost to sort of a ticklish state.
2. As the sensitivity grows, an excitement begins welling within her.
3. The excitement continues to well up and her body movements will become more accentuated and her breathing will be stronger.
4. The welling continues to rise within her as she is constantly stimulated.
5. Finally she orgasms much like the crest of a wave breaking before moving towards the shore.
6. The orgasm will send spasms of euphoria through her body as her sexual organs contract over and over again around eight times a second.
7. As the orgasm settles in, her body will relax down and relax further into a state of well-being.

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