Archive for December, 2009

There are many prostate massagers on the market and innumerable suggestions as to how to use them.

The answer to the question relies on what you are looking for from the massager.

The prostate massager, which is also called a prostate stimulator, is used by men in order to produce a prostate orgasm both for pleasure and for maintenance of prostate health. A prostate orgasm is generally of a more intense nature and longer lasting that a normal male orgasm and is very desirable once a man has discovered them.

Prostate massagers are becoming very popular, especially the ones that work hands free so the man can concentrate completely on the sensations.

The Aneros series of prostate massagers and stimulators get high marks for ease of use and because of that ease, also tend to produce the strongest results. These are high quality devices that are not only easy to use, but also easy to maintain in a cleanly state.

Which ever device you choose, you will want to read the directions carefully and familiarize yourself with the workings of the device. Inserting it and turning it on full blast is guaranteed to over stimulate immediately, which is not a feeling you want to subject yourself to. The first time you insert it you may want to leave it totally inactive so your prostate gets used to the feeling of very light stimulation, then go up slowly from there.

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The male g-spot is easy to find with just a little patience.

In order for the most comfort, the man should probably take a good shower, cleaning his anal area as well as he can.

This will remove any self confidence issues that he may have during the search.

Have him lay on his back and get comfortable, possibly put a couple of pillows under his bottom to raise his hips. This will make his anus easier to come in contact with. Once he is in position and comfortable, begin by caressing the area around his anus softly but not so lightly as to tickle.

As he relaxes, then move closer and closer to the anus itself, getting to the point where you are putting light pressure on the opening and massaging. As you massage, he should relax more, don’t force your way in, this is supposed to be stimulating, not painful.

Once he is totally relaxed, you can begin slowly inserting two lubricated fingers, moving and massaging carefully and entering slowly. At about two inches in, you will find a little chestnut sized bump.

This is the male G-Spot and it is very sensitive.

You will have not trouble telling by his movements that you have found it. Now that you have located it, how you proceed will be between you and your partner, some men prefer gentle prodding of the spot while others may prefer more intense stimulation.

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The right technique for stimulating the Male G-Spot depends a lot on the male involved.

1. Once you have found the G-Spot, gentle caressing with the finger will begin the stimulation process.
2. Some men react very positively to a gentle thrusting movement of the finger while others may prefer a more intense stimulation with constant pressure being placed on the prostate itself.
3. You may want to mix and match the two stimulations together or experiment with different finger movements.
4. Remember to move slowly with the stimulation because you are interacting in a very sensitive and very tender area of the man’s body. Too much stimulation can become very uncomfortable.
5. Do the stimulation in a repetitive motion, giving the man’s body a chance to react to the stimulation.
6. If the reaction you get is bland  or just plain non responsive, you will want to try another stimulation technique or a grouping of techniques, when you find a recipe that works, then keep it up gently.
7. The man’s body will become more and more interactive as he nears his orgasm.
8. When he does reach his orgasm, some men like the stimulation to continue and some need it to stop immediately because they become over-stimulated.
9. Pay attention to the reactions you are getting, if they become too frantic, you will want to cease stimulation and let him come down naturally.

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