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Aug


1127865 do not disturb Things To Remember When Using Her Toys On HerPlaying with and experimenting with toys in the bedroom can be a lot of fun, but if they’re her toys and not something that you bought together, you have to remember that they belong to her. They might be something that she’s comfortable with using in a certain way, and there might be ways that she can’t or won’t use the toy, or ways that don’t feel good to her. If that’s the case, it’s much better to know that before you get started than in the middle of things. Communication is the key to a good sexual relationship with your partner, and as long as both of you enjoy the idea of toys being involved, there’s certainly nothing wrong with using them. It’s a bit different, though, if you buy them together. When you’re using her toys, you might not be familiar with them.

Before you start using them, familiarize yourself with the toys, the way that they work, how to turn them on and off, and any kinds of settings that they have. Some vibrating and other kinds of moving toys have different speeds or they do different things, and you don’t want to do something that she doesn’t like or that she will find uncomfortable. There’s an easy way to avoid that, though – ask. Make sure you know what she likes, wants, and needs so that you won’t go wrong by using a toy too aggressively or by shying away from something that she really enjoys. You can even ask her to show you how she uses them and guide you the first time.

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14
Aug


723739 womans midsection 1 Things You Didn’t Learn In Health Class: Dr. Ernst GrafenbergWhen you went to health class in school you were taught the basics of sex – and it was probably really embarrassing. One thing you probably didn’t hear about, though, was the G spot and it’s discoverer, Dr. Ernst Grafenberg. Dr. Grafenberg gets credit for locating that special spot, which is why it’s been named for him. It’s a small area on the inside of the vaginal wall, about two inches in from the vaginal opening. When stimulated, it can produce intense orgasms in many women. Other women don’t seem to get the same feeling from it, but there’s always a possibility that they (or their partner) are simply not hitting the right area or using the right amount of pressure. Since the G spot is difficult to find for a lot of people, it can be frustrating and upsetting if things don’t go as planned.

When looking for the G spot, whether a woman is doing this on her own or whether a partner is doing the exploring, patience is necessary. When you’re with a partner, communication is one of the key things that you have to focus on. If you can’t talk to one another about what to try, what feels good, and what isn’t working for you, there’s little point and you could end up upset with one another over something that should have been a very enjoyable experience. To avoid that, pay attention to what Dr. Grafenberg said about that special spot so that you’ll have the highest chance of finding it and making it work for you or for your partner.

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13
Aug


1114069 amsterdam Women Aren’t Men:  Sexuality BasicsWhen you say that men and women are different it’s not like you’re telling people something that they don’t already know. However, just how different they really are isn’t something that a lot of people realize. Sure, the physical characteristics of men and women are certainly different, but that’s not the only issue. What they like and what they want (as well as what they need) are also different, and that’s just as true in the bedroom as it is anywhere else. Men are generally more interested in the physical gratification that sex brings them, but women need more than that in many cases. They also like the closeness and companionship that they get from a sexual encounter with their partner. That doesn’t mean, though, that women don’t like something that just equates to raw sex occasionally, or that men don’t need any closeness.

As a generalization, women are more sensitive. They’re interested in being touched in different areas and they want to feel as though they are loved and nurtured as opposed to just being stimulated for a specific sexual encounter. With that in mind, men can mistakes in the bedroom by not being aware of their partner’s needs and be not taking the time to communicate so that those needs can be addressed. While both women and men enjoy sex, the way that it’s presented to them and the kind of enjoyment that they get from it can be very different, so making time to understand your partner is important for both men and women.

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