Archive for 2010


It’s been said that men live through a certain organ, and it’s not the brain. And who can blame them? Men are generally happier when they are sexually satisfied.

Myriad studies confirm this, according to Dr. William Steers, a urologist at the Virginia School of Medicine in Staunton.

“Better quality of life reports are not surprising because we are dealing with a very important part of people’s lives,” he says.

The link between depression and impotence is so strong that, two years ago, researchers at the New England Research Institutes in Watertown, Mass., urged the medical community to screen all patients with erectile dysfunction for depression.

Solutions to sexual problems result in greater happiness. A 1998 study found that men reported significant improvements in well-being, depression and self-control after three months on Viagra.

Steers says that even though the study was conducted by the drug’s manufacturer, Pfizer, it was taken seriously by the American Urological Association.

Similarly, researchers at Duke University Medical Center in Durham, N.C., found that penile injections for impotence, effective in 75 percent of cases, lead to better quality of life.

Steers says it is generally true that the better a man’s sexual functioning, the happier he is liable to be.


  • Most men find sex crucial to their happiness.
  • If you’re having erectile dysfunction problems, you may need to consider treatment for depression.
  • Professional help may be your best bet for treating impotence.

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In some parallel universe, sex is perfect. Not only is it always flat-out fantastic; you get precisely what you want without asking.

In this universe, you have to ask.

1. Make your request an invitation.
Use positive words and phrases, says Kevin Gogin, a marriage and family counselor. “I thought it would be fun if …”

2. Be specific.
It may seem awkward to give a tutorial in the middle of lovemaking, but practice makes perfect.

3. Make everything voluntary.
When you put the pressure on, the message is, “You better give me what I deserve.” Asking instead of telling makes your request a choice.

4. Cater to your partner’s desires.
The more you take interest in what thrills her, the more she will want to do likewise.

5. Feel free to change your mind.
Expressing your likes, writes Dr. Miriam Stoppard in The Magic Of Sex, “doesn’t mean … you might express a different preference on a different occasion.”

6. Be adventurous — a little at a time.
Before you whip out the handcuffs, “start with something simple,” advises Michael Castleman in Sexual Solutions.

7. Master love outside the bedroom.
Do you give her a foot rub without prompting? Do you seek him out the second you walk in the door? Work on giving each other what you want on many levels.

8. Don’t take it too seriously.
Sex may be an important part of your life, but a single experience is not. Keep it fun and playful.

9. Open up to new experiences.
And put them in writing, suggests Tracey Cox, author of Hot Relationships. Each person lists 10 things he or she would like to do in bed. Trade lists. Ditch what you can’t agree on.

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  1. Yule logs last for hours!
  2. Everyone dons gay apparel.
  3. He knows you’ve been naughty — and girlfriend, he spanks!
  4. Stuffing’s so versatile.
  5. Women don’t mind if you watch football after.
  6. One word: giblets.
  7. On Prancer, on Vixen? Whatever turns you on.
  8. Right afterward, OK when guys settle in for a long winter’s nap.
  9. Yelling “Ho, Ho!” in an alleyway won’t get you busted.

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