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Falling in love never grows old. Regardless of your age, a new romance softens the hardest of hearts and awakens long lost regions of the soul.

Clinical psychologist and couples therapist Ayala Pines reflects on the significance love plays in our lives:

Does romantic love ever become a lower priority for people?

I don’t think so. Romantic love is especially important for men and women in midlife. A number of women in their fifties find the great love of their lives. Forty- and fifty-year-old men are connecting to the female side of their personalities and long for greater intimacy with their partners. Even if your sex drive goes down (due to a decline in sex hormones), there is no reason why romantic love should have a lower priority at this age.

How can a couple rekindle a relationship?

When the love in a relationship dies completely, no amount of rekindling will help. But if a few embers are still smoldering, try and inject some adrenaline (the elixir of love) into the relationship by taking a trip abroad, hiking, taking a dance class or going on a spiritual retreat. Couples therapy can also help.

Why do you feel one of the best opportunities for personal growth is within the context of a romantic relationship?

We’ve all been in situations where the things that attract us most in the beginning of a relationship become a great source of stress later on. She loved his sense of humor but later complains they can’t hold a serious conversation, or he was attracted to her sensitivity but complains later that she is too sensitive. If you can control your urge to withdraw when things get tough — a great challenge and opportunity for growth — you can give each other what you need most (or complete the unfinished emotional business of your childhood), and also grow in the direction you need as an individual.

When the love in a relationship dies completely, no amount of rekindling will help. But if a few embers are still smoldering, try and inject some adrenaline (the elixir of love) into the relationship by taking a trip abroad, hiking, taking a dance class or going on a spiritual retreat. Couples therapy can also help.

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The lovers are crazy by tasteofomi

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The Little Chroma is a standout among the wide array of luxury sex toys from Jimmyjane. Some use this vibrator as a clitoral massager while some use it as they would any other dildo. Wondering why this product is so popular? Here’s a list of the things I like and dislike about the Little Chroma.

Sleek Design

 JimmyJane Little Chroma

One of the best features of Little Chroma is its sleek design. At first glance, it looks like a whimsical design artifact that wouldn’t look out of place in your office drawer. Its unique and stylish design may be its best feature. It’s not at all impossible that someone might feel like searching your desk or your underwear drawer and finding your Little Chroma. With other vibrators, you might feel like hiding under a rock when you’re caught red handed with something like a dildo, but not with Little Chroma.
There is a type of Little Chroma that is especially meant for those who want a more aesthetically pleasing vibrator. The Inked is a special edition version of this popular Jimmyjane classic. This is still the same aluminum vibrator, but with unique etchings that look like artsy lines. The design element makes the Little Chroma an ideal gift for a friend who may feel embarrassed (or offended) if you give him or her something like a too-obvious phallic dildo.

It’s Small

It’s small and sleek enough to fit inside the smallest handbag. You can take it anywhere. Moreover, you can use it anywhere that’s convenient for you. There is no strange, identifiable humming sound that you’ve come to expect from other vibrators. It’s quiet enough that you can use it anywhere, even a public toilet or your plane seat.

Cost Effective

At first, I thought this vibrator was too expensive, sleek design or not. But I later realized that this is more convenient and cost effective than the larger, more obvious variations around. You only need one AA battery for the Little Chroma, which means if you buy a two-pack, you’ll have one extra battery to use when the power runs out of the first. Plus, the motor is replaceable. The battery goes directly in the motor, which in turn can be removed and replaced if it ever dies on you. Chances are, you’ll keep the body of the vibrator for years and keep it working by simply changing the motor.

Water Proof

The tube comes with an end cap that you can twist off if you need to insert a battery. When you twist it close as you get ready to use it, it becomes completely waterproof. This feature allows for so many opportunities for usage, even in unique settings. Not only will it allow you to use it while you shower, you don’t have to feel uneasy about getting it wet when you’re using a huge dollop of water-based lubricant. You can bring it to the beach and pretend it’s a tube of lip gloss when someone asks, and use it in the water when you’re alone or with your lover. What if you drop it while riding a boat and you have to ask the boatman or diver to retrieve your “lip gloss” for you? Don’t worry. This toy can be submerged in up to ten feet of water and still work.

Perfect for Temperature Play

Temperature play is the term used for using temperature for your erotic adventures. Some are content with using ice cubes or keeping a mug of warm cocoa around while masturbating or having sex. Some others are experimenting with vibrators and dildos that can retain heat or cold well. If you’re curious about using a chilled or warm vibrator, this is the ideal one for you. The aluminum body can hold any temperature well. You can soak it in icy water for a while, or run it under the warm tap.
All in all, I recommend the Little Chroma for any person who wants to enjoy travelling with a vibrator in tow without feeling apprehensive about it.

Drawbacks

While I can go on and on about the Little Chroma and how good it is, there are some drawbacks. This vibrator is about the size of most bullet vibrators around, which means its main purpose is clitoral stimulation. However, it’s still safe for insertion as long as you don’t push it in too far that you have no way of getting it out on your own. It’s just the right size as a tool for clitoral stimulation, but it may be too small to use as a dildo.
The vibrations, while you can feel them in a pulsing rhythm, are not as strong as those that other brands can give. This is not a big deal for some, but others would prefer really strong vibrations that this unit cannot provide. You can’t speed up or slow down the vibrations because there is no level switch provided. You can’t change the intensity of the vibrations. But there’s a way to get around this small problem. What I would do is to use the side nearer the motor of the vibrator if I want stronger vibrations, and use the longer end if I want softer vibrations.
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