Men often worry (although they usually won’t readily admit it) about whether they are pleasing their woman in bed. If you’re one of those men who are concerned about this, and you don’t feel comfortable just asking her about what she needs and wants, you can look for these three sure signs that she’s having a real orgasm and not just faking it. First, a real orgasm causes contractions and spasms of the vaginal wall, and faking it won’t produce that. Second, the idea of ‘hot, sweaty sex’ isn’t just a metaphor – women usually do break out in at least a light sweat right before or during orgasm. Third, breathing and heart rate go up. It’s a natural reaction of the body, but it’s also important to remember that all women are different.
Just because you don’t notice all of these signs, though, doesn’t mean that she didn’t really have an orgasm. Because each woman is different and reacts to stimulation differently, some women may hold their breath instead of breathing hard, some may be noisy while others are quite, and other differences. As long as you and your partner are enjoying each other, there’s really no need to have an orgasm every time. If you can be open and honest about sex and you can communicate well with one another, that’s all that you need. Communication and honesty is important, so that you don’t feel like you’re doing something wrong if she doesn’t have an orgasm every time you make love.
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