People should try having sex early in the morning instead of trying to shoehorn lovemaking into the end of a long, trying workday, suggests sex and couples counselor Eleanor Hamilton, 90.

Hamilton, who hung out her shingle in Manhattan in the early ’70s, celebrated her 90thbirthday yesterday by continuing to dispense motherly advice on sex and intimacy through the Pt. Reyes Light, a Marin County, Calif., newspaper which has carried her column since the mid-’80s.

Hamilton sees how harried and busy couples are these days, and knows how tough it is to maintain interest in a fulfilling sexual relationship. “I think you need to focus fully and shut out the rest of the world for good sex,” she says. “You need to literally go someplace, where you know there will be no telephone, and no interruptions.”

Take advantage of hours when your energy level is at its peak, she adds.

“The more appreciative you are of the other person, the better your sex life will be,” says Hamilton. “In the business world, people get torn down all day long; it’s wonderful to come home and have someone that’s there especially for you. My husband used to always bring me breakfast in bed and that was just a delight to me.”

Hamilton feels that a relationship goes dead when people lose their passion for each other. A relationships with no passion leaves both men and women ripe for an affair. “So many people stop listening to each other in relationships and that’s what erodes intimacy.”

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How can you get closer to the one you’re with? By understanding the many ways to ignite intimacy.

Intimacy takes many forms: verbal, physical, sexual, spiritual, says Klein. A relationship is all the more powerful — and intimate — when it features more than one of these forms.

Begin your exploration of intimacy with the verbal variety. There are two revealing questions you must first ask of yourself, and then a third you must ask of a loved one.

Once you’ve considered your feelings about getting close, you’re ready to hear the truth about intimacy. Everyone from Oprah to your best friend to Aunt Mabel has a different definition of it, and they’re not always right.

After you put the myths about intimacy aside, you’re ready to draw your partner closer. Spend time getting to know your partner’s dreams and desires. Learn to nurture your relationship, and you’ll keep the sparks flying.

Enough talking. Isn’t sex a part of intimacy? Our readers want to know and we have the answer.

If there’s one thing sure to spoil intimacy, it’s jealously. While occasional pangs of the stuff are natural in most loving relationships,persistent jealously will put out the flame in hearts once afire.

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Men often worry (although they usually won’t readily admit it) about whether they are pleasing their woman in bed. If 939233 love in a cave 3 Signs It’s A Real Orgasmyou’re one of those men who are concerned about this, and you don’t feel comfortable just asking her about what she needs and wants, you can look for these three sure signs that she’s having a real orgasm and not just faking it. First, a real orgasm causes contractions and spasms of the vaginal wall, and faking it won’t produce that. Second, the idea of ‘hot, sweaty sex’ isn’t just a metaphor – women usually do break out in at least a light sweat right before or during orgasm. Third, breathing and heart rate go up. It’s a natural reaction of the body, but it’s also important to remember that all women are different.

Just because you don’t notice all of these signs, though, doesn’t mean that she didn’t really have an orgasm. Because each woman is different and reacts to stimulation differently, some women may hold their breath instead of breathing hard, some may be noisy while others are quite, and other differences. As long as you and your partner are enjoying each other, there’s really no need to have an orgasm every time. If you can be open and honest about sex and you can communicate well with one another, that’s all that you need. Communication and honesty is important, so that you don’t feel like you’re doing something wrong if she doesn’t have an orgasm every time you make love.

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