14
Jul


According to two recent studies, millions of Americans use one or more sex toys. We’re talking vibrators, dildos and butt plugs, as well as blindfolds, handcuffs and nipple clamps. We’ll leave whips and leather underwear for another discussion.

Like all technology, sex toys are an extension of the body. They are hands, tongues and genitalia that are bigger and stronger, and never tire. They are tools that help us give pleasure to ourselves and to each other.

Sex toys can be equally great for partner sex and masturbation. Any sex that can be improved by something that probes, stimulates, squeezes or alters sensation can be enhanced by a sex toy.

Unfortunately, some would-be users are self-conscious about feeling they need assistance. Others are concerned that their partner will feel inadequate. But this is like feeling self-critical that you need a comfortable chair to enjoy a movie. Our shyness about using sex toys really expresses the shame we feel about admitting we’re sexual in a sex-negative culture.

It’s no illusion. Until recently, for example, most national magazines refused vibrator advertising &3151; including Ms. magazine. And only last year, the state of Alabama criminalized the production or sale of “sexual devices marketed primarily for the stimulation of human genitals.”

Why the controversy about a 5-inch battery-powered piece of buzzing plastic? Sex toys are about sexual pleasure, not about reproduction or romantic love (although many romantic, loving people and couples use them).

A vibrator or nipple clamp in your hand is the smoking gun of pleasure — you simply can’t deny that getting off is exactly what you have in mind.

So sex toys are a vehicle for sexual empowerment; for learning about our eroticism, for pleasuring ourselves, for encouraging our partners to feel things more deeply. They are, literally, the way we take our sexuality into our own hands. No wonder so many authorities frown on sex toys and make us hide them under the covers. Using a sex toy is, after all, a political act.

And it feels damn good, too.

Tips:

  • Talk to your partner about your interest in sex toys. Make the conversation fun, not scary.
  • Remember, we use toys because we enjoy them, not because we “need to.”
  • To find a source for your sex toys, search the Web (there are dozens of choices).

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1
Oct


Power, this is the word for the Rabbit Vibrator, those little ears can make your clit dance beneath them.

It is equipped with at seven inch shaft so you don’t have to worry about whether or not the rabbit ears are actually going to be able to be in contact with your clit.

Everything is in the base of the vibrator so you don’t have to search around for such things as the controller or the battery compartment. Once the vibrator is inserted, the control buttons are in the best position for use.

This well thought out little device is very functional, while the rabbit ears provide constant stimulation, the pearls swirl about within the shaft and the head rotates.

  • On setting two, the rabbit ears move to intermittent vibrations to tease your clit while the head rotates clockwise and then counter clockwise and the pearls twirl. During all of this, the intensity of the rabbit ears and the rotation of the shaft is completely controllable by you.
  • On function three, the rabbit ears switch to a series of short quick pulses while the pearls swirl in a dizzying dance and the head sways.

You can control all these functions with the easy reach buttons. With all this activity, you would expect the Rabbit to be noisy but your expectation will be wrong, it’s discretely quiet.

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15
Aug


1127865 do not disturb Things To Remember When Using Her Toys On HerPlaying with and experimenting with toys in the bedroom can be a lot of fun, but if they’re her toys and not something that you bought together, you have to remember that they belong to her. They might be something that she’s comfortable with using in a certain way, and there might be ways that she can’t or won’t use the toy, or ways that don’t feel good to her. If that’s the case, it’s much better to know that before you get started than in the middle of things. Communication is the key to a good sexual relationship with your partner, and as long as both of you enjoy the idea of toys being involved, there’s certainly nothing wrong with using them. It’s a bit different, though, if you buy them together. When you’re using her toys, you might not be familiar with them.

Before you start using them, familiarize yourself with the toys, the way that they work, how to turn them on and off, and any kinds of settings that they have. Some vibrating and other kinds of moving toys have different speeds or they do different things, and you don’t want to do something that she doesn’t like or that she will find uncomfortable. There’s an easy way to avoid that, though – ask. Make sure you know what she likes, wants, and needs so that you won’t go wrong by using a toy too aggressively or by shying away from something that she really enjoys. You can even ask her to show you how she uses them and guide you the first time.

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