Here’s another benefit of education: If you went to college, you’re twice as likely, compared to high-school dropouts, to enjoy oral sex.

Don’t underestimate the importance of going down. Married men will pay strangers if they’re not getting oral sex at home; it’s estimated that 75 percent of New York City streetwalkers’ business is fellatio.

While men love it, many women need it. A survey of Army wives in happy marriages showed they could reach orgasm through intercourse only 25 percent of the time, but with cunnilingus, it’s 81 percent. So be all that you can be!

Just as with gifts, being a good recipient will pay off in the long run. If your partner wants you to bathe first (I always do), do it, without protesting about the importance of natural aroma. Making love is not about scoring political points — it’s about making each other happy.

Here are more tips for giving and getting. Your relationship may depend on it more than you realize.


Women sometimes complain that men don’t know what women like. There’s a good reason.

Sex advice columnist Dan Savage recently ran a series of letters from women describing what turned them on, and each had somebody directly contradict them. Some women want their clitoris sucked; others say it hurts.

Some women enjoy a tongue in their labia; others feel violated. Some women like men to hum the alphabet song while licking their clitoris in the shape of the letters; others think that’s childish and a turnoff, even if you can sing it in French.

What struck me about these letters was how many wrote “it’s good” rather than “I like.” It seems women don’t always realize their personal preference is just that.

This does not mean you shouldn’t have cunnilingus just the way you like it. However, you can’t expect your mate to know how that is. Nor, perhaps, do you even know how what’s best yourself.

There may be some exciting new technique you haven’t even tried that will revolutionize your sex life. Happy experimenting.

Don’t go straight for the genitals.

Many women find a direct clitoral assault physically painful. Kiss a bit and stroke the inner thighs first.

Get comfortable, both of you.

I like to be on my back when I’m performing cunnilingus, with a pillow or two under my head for neck support. I hate it when she’s on her back, but some women like the feel of the man kneeling before her. However, remember that if you ask your partner to do something that makes them uncomfortable, they’re not likely to volunteer often.

One more point — some nights women just don’t feel like getting head, even if they ordinarily enjoy it. If she says no twice and tries to push you away, believe her.

Hum while you lick and suck.

This turns your mouth into a vibrator. However, never blow air into the vagina — pregnant women have died from embolisms.

Ladies, moan loudly when you like something.

Don’t be shy about giving him direct instructions on where to lick, either. If you don’t tell him, he won’t know.


Conventional wisdom says fellatio is easier to get right than cunnilingus. There’s a barroom joke that goes, “I just had the worst blow job of my life. It was great.”

But Shere Hite reported that slightly more women can reach orgasm through oral sex than men. Most men like fellatio as foreplay, but as gay men with sore jaws will tell you, it’s not so easy to make it the final act.

Fortunately, men’s preferences are far more predictable in receiving oral sex than women’s. These tips will help pleasure most guys, presumably even Hugh Grant.

Keep your word, men.

If you promise not to come in her mouth, keep your promise. Otherwise, you may have traded hours of pleasurable fellatio foreplay for hours of apologizing and begging her to give you another chance.

If she doesn’t like the taste of semen, you can improve it through your diet. Pineapple juice is the most famous tonic. I drank a quart of this one afternoon and my partner, who wasn’t happy about participating in this experiment even for journalistic purposes, said it gave a pleasant enough citrus flavor that she was willing to try it again with different juices. (“Maybe mango next,” she said.) That’s a small price to pay, boys.

Pretend it’s a surprisingly warm popsicle.

Don’t be shy about handling the penis. You can save yourself a lot of gagging by gripping the base firmly and concentrating your mouth on the head and top of the shaft.

Men like it when you lick the shaft, and particularly when you lick the frenulum — a small strip of skin just below the head on the underside.

However, there’s no substitute for taking it in your mouth and just sucking. If you can lick while you’re doing it, even better. Pressure, motion and moisture will drive most men to distraction.

Try some additional flavoring.

Altoids got a great advertising boost when people began telling about sucking the mints at the same time they were giving fellatio. It’s an interesting change of pace — try it.

Other worthwhile experiments: hold a small ice cube in your mouth, or take occasional sips of hot tea.

Love me, love my Johnson.

Men place an enormous amount of personal value on their penis. If you love your man, think of his penis the same way — as an embodiment of him, who you’re making deliriously happy.

The best head I’ve ever received has depended not on technique, but on feeling: I feel like she really enjoyed doing it. Learn to feel this, or fake it convincingly, and you’ll have your partner glaze-eyed in no time.


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Missionary position might sound clean and right, but the plain fact of the matter is that you have a hard time getting in touch with the female g-spot in this position. This means she’s not got much of a chance of reaching an orgasm with this position unless she has had a large amount of stimulation beforehand; enough to put her almost to orgasm by itself.

So for proper g-spot stimulation, its important to try other positions as well. 

  • The first alternate position to try is with the woman on top.

Some women won’t be able to do this position because it feels uncomfortable for them however most will not only be able to do it, but enjoy it immensely. Many men find this position an extreme turn on. In this position the woman can control depth, intensity, and speed. She can also tease by not moving and drive the man crazy.

This can be very stimulating for both parties, it also puts her in control of using her movements to put your penis in just the right position to hit her g-spot.

  • Another alternate position is commonly known as ‘doggy style.’ This position has the woman on her hands and knees and the man on his knees behind her.

In this position, both parties can share control of all aspects and the woman can move her body in order to guide the man’s penis exactly where she wants it to be. The man can do all the work, or the woman can do all the work, or it can be shared. She may even drop down to her elbows rather than hands.

There are other positions that are just as exciting, do yourselves a favor and explore. Be open minded and adventurous.

how to find the g spot picture 13 The Best Positions For G Spot Stimulation

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Whether you’re a man or a woman, you might be wondering what the buzz is all about when it comes to the G-spot or the Grafenberg spot. The problem that most women have is not being able to find it themselves, or not being able to reach an orgasm by stimulating the G-spot. On the other hand, the problem that men have is that they do not know which G-spot sex positions to use so that they can zero in on the target – which is the G-spot.

Now, before delving deeper into the sexual positions that will best hit the G-spot, here’s a quick lesson as to what it is exactly. The Grafenberg Spot is named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg who made a study about it in the 1950′s.  In terms of a woman’s physiology, the G-spot is supposed to be something that is equivalent to the male prostate.

It’s a bean-shaped tissue that it located about two to three inches up a woman’s vagina wall, pointing towards her belly button. What makes the G-spot such worthy of buzz is the fact that finding it and stimulating it is like hitting the jackpot – in terms of the sexual pleasures that a woman can feel.

However, remember that when it comes to a woman’s body, everyone is different. So while some women may find that stimulating the G-spot is an earth shattering event, for others it might cause discomfort or even downright pain.

If you haven’t tried to discover it yet, though, there is absolutely no harm in trying. If you find that you cannot reach an orgasm through G-spot stimulation, there are other perfectly suitable ways for you to reach your sexual peak.

A Collection of G-Spot Sex Positions to Choose From

So if you’re part of a couple and you would like to reach a G-spot orgasm, which sex positions will target the right spot? Take a look at the following list:

  1. Rear Entry Position This is probably one of the crowd favorites as far as G-spot sex positions are concerned.  Also known as the doggie style, a man can easily thrust towards his partner from behind – a position which is most likely to successfully hit the G-spot during penetration.
  2. Spooning PositionIf you think that doing the rear entry position will practically murder your back, you can have a gentler version of it with the spooning position. For this, a woman will be on the front, lying on her side while a man enters her from behind in the same sideways position while lying down in bed.
  3. Woman on Top PositionYet another favorite position for targeting the G-spot is the woman on top position.  As the name implies, the woman will be the one in charge lying on top of the man as she pumps up and down. What makes this such a great position to target the G-spot is because the woman can control the depth of penetration.
  4. Manual StimulationIf all else fails, you can always just use manual stimulation as the premier position to find her G-spot. Since the location of the G-spot is a bit tricky, you can consider finding it to be a refined art. As such, it would help if you will just have a woman lie down on her back while you manually work on finding her G-spot – just make sure that she’s fully aroused while doing it.

So what are you waiting for? Try out these G-spot sex positions now and find out which one will bring her to a mind blowing orgasm – without leaving you far behind in the game at all.

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