20
Apr


Our emotions affect our sexual functioning. It sounds obvious when you say it, but many people behave as if they don’t realize this.

Sexual response is a reflex. We perceive a physical or mental stimulus (say, a caress or a fantasy). This message travels to the brain, which sends a message down the spinal cord to various parts of the body, instructing them to respond with tingling, extra blood flow, etc.

Emotions are electrical and chemical events in the body. They either facilitate or disrupt the sex-related messages going up and down the spinal column. Thus, if your partner says, “your skin tastes good,” your emotions facilitate a sexual response. But if your partner calls you the wrong name, your emotions disrupt the sexual response. This is how common feelings such as anger, anxiety, sadness and frustration interfere with reflexes such as erection, lubrication and orgasm.

Many people tolerate negative emotions during sex in silence. Most men and women have experienced sex that made them feel uncomfortable. This could be due to anxiety about performance, fear or anger about being coerced, or sadness about having their needs ignored.

Bodies in these situations rarely respond in an ideal way. Unfortunately, people frequently blame themselves, rather than the situation, for their inadequate response. This is often the beginning of believing that they have a dysfunction. That leads to more anxiety during subsequent lovemaking, undermining sexual functioning even more.

Unlike computers, our bodies respond to irrational factors like expectations, memories and emotions. This means that being aware of our emotions is essential for satisfying sex. Your feelings may embarrass, surprise or confuse you, but they’re real, and their impact on sexual function is also real.

Penises and vulvas usually tell the truth: a frightened penis often shrivels; an angry vulva often tightens shut, and sad mouths rarely relax and enjoy kissing.

Admitting to yourself how you really feel may be uncomfortable, and discussing it with a partner may be even more uncomfortable. But there’s no substitute for connecting with yourself–or your partner–emotionally. It’s a key step toward healthy sexual functioning.

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2
Mar


Believe it or not, women can make mistakes when trying to locate their G-Spot.  We don’t know ourselves as well as we would sometimes like to believe.  Some of the following may appear to be obvious to you, but not everyone knows.

439909201d65629e996984ff7f81d759 Common G Spot Mistakes and Misconceptions

Common G-Spot Mistakes and Misconceptions

  • The G-Spot is not outside the vagina.  Contrary to what many believe, the G-Spot in on the inside wall of the vagina.
  • You do not have to press it really hard and fast.  As a rule of thumb the best way to stimulate the G-Spot is to go with what feels good.  If you are trying to stimulate someone else then be attentive to what they are feeling.
  • “Scientists” say that the G-Spot may not exist.  Well this is a load of old rubbish, and anyone who has actually stimulated their G-Spot will tell you this without a moment of hesitation.  Scientists are probably too busy with their test tubes and Bunsen burners to have any fun at all!
  • The G-Spot is not compulsory for all sexual relationships.  Don’t get hung up on the G-Spot, it isn’t the be all and end all of a successful relationship, and there are some people who can’t stimulate it as much as they can their clitoris.
  • You are not supposed to have multiple orgasms or ejaculate every time you orgasm with G-Spot stimulation.  This is entirely dependent on the person doing the stimulating, the person being stimulated, and indeed the general physical make up of the woman involved.

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23
Feb


2478bf9ba404c0e47fccf0f0ddf6c34f A Sure Fire Way to Locate Her G Spot

A Sure-Fire Way to Locate Her G-Spot

Ok, you’ve read about it and heard about it but have you done anything about it? I’m talking about the female g-spot and how it can induce mind-blowing orgasms. If you haven’t tried before (or have but failed in your quest) then read on to know the best way to find and stimulate her g-spot.

Firstly, there is no shortcut. The g-spot, like her clitoris, becomes slightly engorged when she’s aroused so to make locating it easier for you, engage in heavy foreplay!

Now that she’s aroused, ask her to lie down. Make your way down there and engage in some oral action to keep her in sexual suspense. Next, insert your index and middle fingers (palm up) inside her. While inside, feel her vaginal wall and search for something slightly engorged and has a spongy or slightly rough texture. (By the way, cut your nails and buff the skin around your fingers to ensure there’s nothing rough that can scratch her.)

Move your fingers between 11 o’clock and 1 o’clock to find the g-spot. If you can’t find it, don’t be afraid to ask! Ask her how she’s feeling as you feel around. Is one spot giving more pleasure than the other?

Also, since the g-spot is actually located in her inner vaginal wall, it may help if you use your other hand to slightly push down on her groin. This way, there’s a bit of pressure outside and inside that area, making it easier for you to find the g-spot.

Don’t be disappointed though if nothing happens even if you do find the spot. Not all women are g-spot sensitive and some may even find stimulating the area downright annoying.

Still, you (and she!) will never know how she will react so the effort is definitely worth a try.

How to Electrifyingly Stimulate the G-Spot

For now, let’s assume you’ve located her g-spot. Now what? Well, stimulate it of course so that she reaches a roaring climax! To do this, start tapping the g-spot. You can also rub it gently back and forth. You can also try pressing it down and releasing it like a doorbell. Try different techniques and see what works best with your girl!

How’s your ‘curvature’ down there? You see, some women cannot reach an orgasm via finger stimulation. However, since you already know where it is, you can probably stimulate it using your penis. If you’re naturally curved down there… lucky you.

If you’re going for the missionary position, make sure you prop her lower back or hips with a soft pillow to elevate her groin. Ask her to do a few Kegel moves too (contracting her pubic muscles) while you’re at it. This will intensify the pleasure for both of you.

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