11
Apr


Female Orgasms. It’s a subject I’m often asked about. Here are the answers to three common questions about female orgasms.

Q: I rarely come with my boyfriend, even though I come fine by myself. What should we do?

A: Since you come fine when you get the stimulation you like, the primary question is, are you getting this stimulation with your partner? Most women with orgasm difficulties expect to climax from intercourse alone (which rarely provides adequate stimulation), or from touching that isn’t to their liking. Is your fear of the big bad male ego preventing you from telling your mate what you like? If you’re giving more explicit information to the person who makes your lunch than to your sexual partner, there’s something wrong.

Another reason some women fail to climax with a partner is that they’re self-conscious — about the way they look, smell, taste or sound. Sex is not the time to be ladylike, and orgasm is not the time to think about your appearance. Everyone looks and sounds funny when they come. As for taste and smell, ask your partner. Many men love a woman’s vaginal juices and their place of origin. You don’t have to like it, if he does, that’s good enough.

Finally, some women have trouble coming with a partner because they don’t trust or like him, or don’t trust or like men in general. If that’s the case, either get a different partner or see a professional therapist.

Q: It takes me too long to cum. What should I do?

A: Are you having sex with a stopwatch? Is your partner in a hurry to get to his broker or to church? Most women concerned about taking too long are afraid their partner is getting bored. Rather than pressuring yourself to come quicker, ask your partner how he genuinely feels about this. If either of you is bored, make sex more entertaining. If you’re using a vibrator together, add some kissing, nipple sucking (his or yours), or other pleasures. Talk or caress each other. Don’t strain to come — it’ll take longer, and you won’t enjoy anything that’s going on, clitoral or otherwise,

Q: I saw a film in which women ejaculated when they climaxed. How can I do that?

A: A tiny percentage of women expel fluid when they climax (leaking a bit of urine is actually more common). Mostly either you do or you don’t; it’s not something you can practice. What you can do is experiment with your G Spot, a nickel-size area on the front inside wall of your vagina. In some women this spot becomes very sensitive after they’re excited, and continued stimulation can lead to orgasm. Occasionally, this orgasm is accompanied by about a half-teaspoon of fluid.

Your other option is to become a porn star — that is, have someone edit the footage of your sexual encounters to give you a female ejaculation. Added, of course, to a gigantic orgasm just from looking at an erect penis.

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2
Mar


Believe it or not, women can make mistakes when trying to locate their G-Spot.  We don’t know ourselves as well as we would sometimes like to believe.  Some of the following may appear to be obvious to you, but not everyone knows.

439909201d65629e996984ff7f81d759 Common G Spot Mistakes and Misconceptions

Common G-Spot Mistakes and Misconceptions

  • The G-Spot is not outside the vagina.  Contrary to what many believe, the G-Spot in on the inside wall of the vagina.
  • You do not have to press it really hard and fast.  As a rule of thumb the best way to stimulate the G-Spot is to go with what feels good.  If you are trying to stimulate someone else then be attentive to what they are feeling.
  • “Scientists” say that the G-Spot may not exist.  Well this is a load of old rubbish, and anyone who has actually stimulated their G-Spot will tell you this without a moment of hesitation.  Scientists are probably too busy with their test tubes and Bunsen burners to have any fun at all!
  • The G-Spot is not compulsory for all sexual relationships.  Don’t get hung up on the G-Spot, it isn’t the be all and end all of a successful relationship, and there are some people who can’t stimulate it as much as they can their clitoris.
  • You are not supposed to have multiple orgasms or ejaculate every time you orgasm with G-Spot stimulation.  This is entirely dependent on the person doing the stimulating, the person being stimulated, and indeed the general physical make up of the woman involved.

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12
Aug


1196198 old trains “Hit By A Train” and other descriptions of a G Spot Orgasm Women who have G spot orgasms often find that they are much more intense than the clitoral orgasms, and they use phrases like ‘hit by a train’ to describe the intensity of the feelings that they’re experiencing. Not all women reach this intensity, of course, but many of them do. If you’re interested in experiencing this type of orgasm and haven’t yet been able to, it’s important to be patient, because not all women can have them easily. It is much more difficult for some women than it is for others, and some never have them at all, but that’s no reason not to try. Whether you try alone or with a partner, you can find out whether a G spot orgasm is mind-blowing for you or only similar to the clitoral orgasms that are easier to achieve for most women.

The G spot is actually more of a zone, and while it’s in the same basic place on every woman, they all react to it just a little bit differently. With that in mind, it’s important to talk with your partner if you’re interested in exploring the G spot orgasm and haven’t practiced, because it can take some time to get things just right. If you’re able to communicate well you’ll have a better chance of enjoying the experience, even if the ‘hit by a train’ feeling doesn’t materialize. No matter what, good communication between partners is the key to the enjoyment of orgasms and for the enjoyment of the sexual experience in general.

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