2
May


You probably have sex for many different reasons. And depending on your mood, circumstances, relationship and other factors, you probably want different things from sex at different times.

Are you aware of this? Do you change your sexual activity to get what you want from it?

If you want to feel warm and close, for example, agreeing to hang from the chandeliers might lead to turning off in the middle of sex. Similarly, if you’ve been bossed around at work all week, warm and romantic sex may simply feel too controlled. A raunchy video, nasty language, or creative roleplay may appeal much more.

People often have sex for reasons they don’t like to admit: to feel like a real man or real woman, to feel normal or competent, to keep a partner from straying (or to disguise the fact that they’re straying), to escape from problems or cure insomnia, even to avoid talking about something serious (“Oh honey, let’s not fight. Come to bed”).

The point isn’t that some reasons are better than others, but rather that couples sometimes have very different agendas for their sex. The criticism that can follow (“Why are you so uptight?” “Why must you be so kinky?”) is often hurtful rather than productive.

Think of it this way: fast food and luxurious dinners both have their place. But trying to get a gourmet experience from McDonalds or a quick bite at the Ritz will lead to disappointment and conflict. The problem isn’t with Big Macs or canapés, it’s with trying to get something from a place that can’t give it to you.

If you’re feeling frustrated about the sex you and your mate have, ask yourself what you want from sex, and then ask if the sex you’re creating could satisfy those needs. If not, it’s time to do something else. Experiment with new things, stop doing what you don’t want to, ask your partner to change, or all of the above.

Just don’t blame sex. It’s there to serve you.

To get more of what you want in bed, remember:

  • “I don’t want to” is a sufficient reason to say no.
  • Sexual experimentation isn’t right or wrong. It’s either attractive or uninteresting at this time with this partner.
  • Talk with your mate to discover reasons you each have for lovemaking that are compatible.

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29
Aug


Although the missionary position is one of the most popular ways to make love, it is one of the worst positions to hit the G spot during intercourse (let alone reach a g spot orgasm). But don’t worry, there are other sexual positions that can easily stimulate the G spot! (And no, you don’t have to perform any complex Kamautra positions icon smile G Spot Position )

One of the best G Spot position is the “doggy style”. This lovemaking position is the most appropriate since it allows the man’s penis better access to the front wall of the vagina, where the Gspot can be easily stimulated.

Other sexual positions that can make the penis reach the female gspot during sex are those where the woman is on top, or the man or is penetrated from behind. Here are some sexual intercourse positions to hit the Gspot:

1. Cowgirl

The woman sitting astride the man and tilted.

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2. Missionary with legs raised

The woman lying on her back with legs bent and raised, and the man kneeling between her legs.

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3. Spooning

The woman lying on her side, and the man in the same position by thrusting from behind.

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4. Face-to-Face

Sitting opposite each other.

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5: Rear Entry

The woman lying face down and the man on top penetrating from behind.

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6: High Angled Doggy

Known as “the doggy style”. To effective stimulate the gspot, the man must lean forward so that the angle of penetration makes his penis hit the g-spot.

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7: Doggy Style on the side of the bed

The woman on her knees, leaning on your forearms so your buttocks are raised, and the man kneeling behind her, took her by the waist and hips to control the action.

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It is necessary to clarify that the G-spot stimulation through the introduction of the penis is difficult if not help with manual stimulation, particularly in women having vaginal muscles stretched by childbirth. (Note: vaginal tightening can be solved by performing kegel exercises).

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9
Aug


439197 man and muscles 1 Making Your Size Count: Small To Large And The Position That Can Put You ThereWomen may say that size doesn’t matter, but it really does, and being too small or even being abnormally large can make your sexual encounter less enjoyable for your partner. So, what do you do if you weren’t blessed with a whole lot and you want to make sure you’re pleasing your partner? You find a position that’s more fulfilling for her, and that makes you feel larger to her. This could be different for different women, but certain positions tend to make a woman feel ‘fuller’ than others, such as entering from behind. It’s all about the angle at that point, and it can cause more pressure on the front wall of the vagina, resulting in a better experience and outcome for her.

If that’s not comfortable for you, though, or if she isn’t interested in that, you can always experiment with other positions and look for the ones that bring the most pleasure to her. There are times when it really isn’t about the size but about what you’re doing with it, and it’s important to pay attention to her signals so that you can take your cues from her. That way you’ll know what she enjoys the most and you won’t have to be guessing about it. Open and honest communication about sex can make a relationship much more fulfilling, as can allowing her to show you what she likes, so that you both can find what you really enjoy. A lot of men don’t take the time to do this, but women appreciate a partner who’s receptive to their needs.

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