9
Nov


No one can be in two places at once. Therefore, if you want to be present during sex, you have to let go of both the past and future. You may not want — or be able — to let go permanently, but you need the ability to let go for an hour. Let’s look at four things to let go of.

First, let go of how your body used to be. Honey, none of us is getting any younger, and I know our (fill in the blank) used to be firmer, higher, smaller. Well, it isn’t now, and both you and your lover need to accept that. Any energy you put into sucking in your belly, hiding your butt, or pretending you don’t look exactly the way you do is energy taken away from the good sex you could be having.

Second, let go of comparing yourself to your partner’s ex-lovers. Needing to be the “best” is almost as destructive as needing to be the “only.” During lovemaking many of us focus more on our partner’s ex- than on our partner, in a perverse mental threesome that nobody enjoys. Teach your partner to make you feel like the world’s most important lover, and learn how to feel that way when he or she does. Be gracious. It’s an art.

Third, let go of worrying what your partner will think of you later. We all look silly during sex — if we’re enjoying ourselves. And if we’re fortunate, and our partner is fortunate, we will squeal, beg, fart, suck, demand, drool and lose track of time, space, grammar and our hands. Decide before you begin that this is OK, or don’t bother taking off your clothes.

Fourth, let go of any trauma you have previously suffered around sexuality. Difficult? Of course. Perhaps the most difficult thing you’ve ever done. Possible? Certainly; the human spirit is incredibly resilient. Scary? Definitely, so professional help may be appropriate.

Make sure you hire someone who wants to get you over the trauma, rather than keep you in it. Time-consuming? Probably. So better get going right now. Good sex is waiting — in the present.

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23
Feb


There are, as I am sure you all know, two main types of female orgasm, and these are the clitoral one and the G-Spot orgasm, but to argue which one is best is surely a bad question.  And that is the focus of this blog.  You shouldn’t put any more emphasis on one type of orgasm above the other.

361ac538fc48b11cbe256ed711c1bb6d Clitoral or G Spot Orgasms?

Try both orgasms and make your own choice. Although there have been surveys that suggest the G-Spot offers the most intense orgasms, there can be no opinion that could possibly tell you which one is best because we are all physically different.  Do whatever makes you feel good.

Failure to locate the G-Spot is common, and this is through no fault of the woman concerned.  There is evidence that suggests that some women (typically under 30) have a high level of the hormone estrogen, and this hormone creates a vaginal wall that is too thick to properly stimulate the G-Spot.  There is hope however, because as the female gets older her levels of estrogen drop, thus making her G-Spot more accessible.

Those unable to properly stimulate the G-Spot can still have very intense clitoral orgasms.  It’s almost as though it’s meant to be because there are several studies that relate to the fact that those woman unable of properly stimulating their G-Spots have better clitoral orgasms than those woman who can.

As long as you are having as much fun as you can, or as much fun as you want or can take, then there is no right or wrong answer here.

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29
Aug


G Spot Stimulation

G Spot Stimulation can be accomplished in many ways. A woman's Gspot can be stimulated with fingers by fingering a girl, with the penis using sexual positions, or specially designed sex toys know as G-Spot vibrators. Women can experience Gspot orgasms and female ejaculation after thorough stimulation.

Stimulating the G spot is recommended once women this excited (the erect clitoris, vulva and blood loaded lubricated vagina) and persevere their stimulation for several minutes until she starts to feel pleasure.

Also note that by stimulating the G-spot, pressure is being applied to the walls of the bladder, so it is normal that some women feel to urinate during G-Spot stimulation. You can always urinate before performing this sexual technique and empty the bladder. After thorough stimulation, women may release liquid when practicing this sexual technique (squirting).

Once you know where it is and how to find the female g spot, there's only one thing left: Stimulating the G Spot!

How does one go about stimulate the G Spot? Read below to find out:

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